Oh Hello, I’m writing a series of essays which I’ve affectionately named, rambles and bleats. I intend to shake up your belief system. You’re going to have to trust me on this it’s strangely fun once you get into it. A hidden benefit to practising critical awareness is, it makes space for new perspectives and greater wisdom towards your living experience. Challenging…
Read more These are bleats and rambles scribbled by of a reformed lady rogue, who alchemised into a hypnotising Psychotherapist, teaching street philosophies.
We have relationships with others and unconsciously draw up a contract with the other person and don’t tell them, and then get pissed off when they don’t live up to our rules.
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Saturday 13th October 2018 Leicester WARNING!!! As a result of attending this course, you will think differently. A one day course presented by Street Philosophy Seminars. How different will your life be for deciding to fall in love with you? I believed for years that liking yourself was a bad thing, and anyone who does…
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Many people have said over the years “Alexia, you are a shaman”. I take this as a compliment and leave it as a compliment instead of a definition of who I am, or how I work. In truth, the title sits uncomfortably with me, why?
Shamanism has and continues to have a significant influence on my life, which makes my work undeniably influenced.
I’m in communion with spiritual entities, and different entities emerge into my consciousness depending on the person and their presenting issues. This, I assume, is unnoticeable to the client and unnecessary for them to be aware of for us to progress with whatever we are addressing.
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Mythology was the universal life guide before Psychology. Stories and myths provide great significance to our lives, sadly the power of stories seem to be disregarded in our modern society. We all need to share our story to gain a deeper understanding of who we really are. We need to learn how to interpret the…
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The illusion of safety seduces you while fear torments you. That’s a cutting conflict that can tarnish any belief in self-trust. Cultural Myths can decide our life path if we don’t keep a curious eye For example; a conventional western narrative or myth is: go to university get a job working preferably for the government get…
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Invisibility is considered a superpower said someone who hasn’t lived feeling invisible to the world. Existential isolation is a harrowing and profoundly self-destructive experience of being disconnected from the world. What makes this existential concept utterly soul-destroying is the problem is outlined in indelible ink. Ralph Ellison, Author of The invisible man describes his experience…
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My mind is diligently curious, a part of me would like to settle into the cosy religion of comfort and follow the herd. I crave this ‘unquestioning normality’ at times, but I can’t help but pick holes in theories ideas and beliefs, not because I want to break down people’s comfort or dispute everything that presents as a possible navigational system, for life.
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Worrying about what others think often coincides with social-based anxiety or painful shyness. What people seem to fear the most is; other people thinking negatively about them. The most common fear I hear of, from clients suffering this form of anxiety, is that “other people, will think I’m stupid”. This is often a result of the worrier…
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